Sunday, February 05, 2012


Without friends, no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods. ~Aristotle

These last few months, I have come to believe this more and more. And really, as I look over my entire life, it's always been this way. Each trial, trauma, challenge, celebration and accolade I've faced have been made easier, smoother, richer and immeasurably better because of my friends.

I couldn't even write out for you all the ways my friends (I'll talk about my family another time) have supported me, encouraged me, taught me and blessed me. This past week alone, I've been struck particularly by the everlasting nature of friendship. What I mean is this; that when you have good friends, true connections with people, you can go for a long, long time without seeing them and then when you get the chance to be together again, it's like no time has passed.

What a blessing that is.

And what a great joy it is to have friends you can see often, people who will meet you emotionally wherever you are. Friends will comfort you when you're sobbing, pat you on the back when you're being brave, encourage you when you're scared and help you see the best in things when you're uncertain. Friends pray for you, even when they don't agree with your choices. Friends what what is best for you, always.

I am so blessed, so lucky, so overjoyed to have such good friends. Thank you all for making this dark, dark time so livable. Every little email, tweet, note, smile, listening moment, hug, etc, helps me make it through these days.

Thanks, also, to those of you who trust me to help you carry your own burdens. It is an honor I do not take lightly. Loving others is the best way to get past my own woes.

Thanks for helping me move along . . .


BG said...

Love and caring are boomerangs. Send 'em out there and they will come back to you. That is what you are witnessing now. :-) Hugs to you.

Cheryl said...

Hey. I am so glad we are friends esp ironically since most of our friendship we have not lived in the same city! I value your friendship, your insight, your creativity, your talents and smile. I hope this summer when I visit Ohio that I can see you this time! xx

LynneF said...

Hugs to you, friend. Thinking of the many ways our lives have connected. Remember this little fact? You are the Facebook friend with whom I share the most Facebook friends. HA! Such an honor... I hope that we will have the chance to sing together in 2012. That is my wish for our friendship this year.